When someone is showing you their true colors by how they talk, the reaction they can give when they are angry, not listening to you or even bothering to give you that care in any fore, believe them that this is their true identity. This is what you call “Rose colored Glasses” which is exactly what a narcissist will make sure you have. This is another way of them keeping you in their trap. A narcissist wants you to believe that they aren’t ‘bad’ and everything you see or hear is all in your head. They will make you believe that you are either going crazy or you are crazy. A narcissist will cover your eyes by showing you what you want to see, this is their way of hiding their true colors, because as long as you take their side, defend them and are under their control, they are safe from being exposed. They will make sure you see the sweet, loving and caring person that a narcissist has “always” shown you.
The ONLY way to get out of this is by taking the glasses off, believe in your gut when you noticed the pattern, when you start to feel your body is giving up on the energy that you are providing the narcissist with, a light bulb will start to flicker and tell you to take those glasses off and walk away from that toxic relationship.
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