POV: A Narcissist has joined the chat: step one- Love Bombing 

A narcissist will pretend to be interested in everything you tell them, pretending to care about your deepest secrets, personal problems and even in your hobbies and goals. This is the secret key of telling you that they want to be serious with you, want to create a future with you. At first you will think “oh my gosh, they really understand me” but as time passes and they finally have you in their trap  every “interest” they had in you goes away like it was nothing. The best way to spot a narcissist’s love bombing is if they are actually listening to you, making eye contact with you and actually giving you the sympathy that you desire. Always trust your gut when speaking to a narcissist, if you have a discomfort feeling from telling them about your feelings, the best thing to do is to keep your distance.